Thursday, December 4, 2008

DIGNITY



I just read a very relevant and salient article entitled “Be a Dignitarian” by Robert Fuller and Pamela Gerloff, published in the winter 2008 edition of UU World. Herein, it states that Dignity is a primal need that everyone wants, craves, and seeks. People’s whole lives change when they are treated with dignity – and when they are not. All of us want to be treated with dignity. Fundamentally it is about respect and value. Yet routinely, we fail to accord dignity to those we perceive to be weaker (the oppressed) than us (the oppressor). Naming the problem of indignity is to identify it and make it visible and actionable. A good term for the source of if dignity violation is rankism.

Rankism is the abuse of power attached to rank. It is when those of a higher rank, i.e, those with power over another, threaten those of a lower rank in ways that violate their dignity. Rankism can be considered an umbrella term that encompasses many other “isms” that sets one group or individual apart from another and claims superiority. If we are ever to free ourselves from retaliatory rankist behavior, we will need to disallow rankism and instead create cultures of dignity. To create a dignitarian world, not only must rankism must be counteracted when it occurs, there needs to be an initiation of new processes, procedures, and training. Dignity for all is a stepping stone to realizing the democratic promise of liberty and justice.

Monday, December 1, 2008

World AIDS Day - Dec 01


Acknowledgment of this continuing crisis should be an everyday event and of all those who have lost their lives to this insidious disease. Remembering my friends, relatives, and countless others who have gone Somewhere Over the Rainbow. For my beloved friend, Chris - I miss you so much - you left us way too early. PS - Am disappointed how little attention was given to this day this year. Guess people were too busy trampling over others or shooting them for holiday sales.

Saturday, November 29, 2008

Friendship


Call me sentimental but during this time of being thankful, I find myself reflecting on how blessed that I am to have such great and devoted friends. In no particular order >> LOVE you guys (Bruce, Jeff, Lennie, Terry, Dan S, Ed, Gus, David K, Byran, Charles, Marty, Tom, Jim, Bob V, Stan, Roger, Bob W, David M, Brodie, Dom, Sal, Nate, Dan J and so many more) !!

Ecclesiasticus (6:14-17) A faithful friend is a secure shelter; whoever finds one has found a treasure. A faithful friend is beyond any price; his worth is more than money can buy. A faithful friend is an elixir of life, found only by those who respect the Lord. The man who respects the Lord keeps his friendships in repair, for he treats his neighbor as himself.

Monday, November 17, 2008

Where is Waldo?


I just noticed that it has been over a month since my last posting. My time flies whether you are having fun or not. So for those wondering - "Where is Mark?" - am still up and about. Problem is I have not quite recovered from the malaise state that I was in during my last post and just have not been moved lately to expound on life. Outside of the positive election of Barack Obama and the Phillies win of the baseball world championship, things remain rather gloomy. The economy situation continues to deteriorate, human rights such as gay marriage continue to be denied, health issues are of concern, seminary studies plod along, gloomy and cold weather now prevails, getting older with more aches and pains, close friends have moved away, etc., etc. Cheer up Mark - things could get worse and then they did. So for now, know that the old curmudgeon is still around and I promise to make my next post more uplifting even if it is one of my usual rants and raves.